And Lynnzard, you very much ARE asking me to trust you. What if you drop your gun while I'm in the house next door, and you accidentally hit the trigger, and the bullet goes through the window and kills me? Tough titty for me?
And Lynn, if you're regularly around people who need to be threatened with guns to make them behave, you might want to rethink something, because THAT'S not normal.
Try again. I live in a house not close enough to any other houses in my area for any bullet to strike them, off of a private easement nowhere near a road. Do you drive? Because you are seriously in WAY more danger every single day on the road surrounded by people texting, talking on their cell phones, eating, drinking, and functioning on less than 3 hours of sleep. You're exposed to that every single day. I find it very strange that you claim your argument isn't emotion or fear based, and yet all you've brought up are fear arguments. What if something incredibly and highly unlikely happens while you're handling your gun and you accidentally shoot someone who just might be in the wrong place at the wrong time? That's not logic. That's cherry picking and a pretty poor attempt at it.
I wouldn't say that in almost 42 years of life, I have
regularly been in any situation that required me to have a handgun. The carjacking attempts were in two separate states separated by several years, both along stretches of road with traffic and not by any stretch of the imagination considered a "bad neighborhood". The mugging/whatever else attempt was on my way to a parking lot after work. You know, that wild and crazily reckless behavior of trying to drive home after earning a living? Yeah, woo, what the hell is wrong with me? What was I thinking? How dare I be a woman walking alone?
The vicious dogs were kept by people who rented near where I live, and the harassing neighbors were also renters. Now, if you'd like to tell me where I can live that I am never, ever in any danger of having mentally unstable or idiotic people renting or buying a house somewhere within about ten miles of mine, by all means speak up. I'd love to live in that idyllic paradise.
Your point about trying to develop programs where people don't turn to criminal behavior in the first place is an attempt to set up a false dichotomy. Either/or. Except it's not an either/or scenario at all. There is nothing that says you can't have programs to try to combat poverty and the conditions that breed some of the more violent crimes AND allow handguns. I personally have done quite a bit of volunteer work throughout the years in programs to help people get a leg up, anything from tutoring kids in group homes who got kicked out by their parents for bad behavior to prison outreach, domestic violence education and awareness, and working crisis hotlines. If this issue is so close to home and dear to you, I'd like to ask what you are doing personally to cut down the need for law abiding citizens like me to protect themselves from the violent people who are currently walking among us even as we have this exchange and who will not magically change their ways the moment the government institutes the most effective, perfect social re-engineering program possible to prevent people from having to protect themselves?
Here's the thing. You already stated with quite a degree of chest pounding that no one is going to change your mind. I don't think anyone here is unclear of your position. I've also stated that you're not going to change my mind, and I've been crystal clear on my position, so why are we still even having this...it's not even a conversation or an exchange of ideas at this point. It's just different ways of stating the same thing. That's what happens when you
start a conversation by saying you're not interested in hearing what anyone else has to say about it because your mind is made up.