General Discussion / Re: RAF seems unnerving to mother.
« on: November 01, 2009, 07:52:10 am »I bet you could strike a bargain with her. First, tell her you agree to no ground beef or chicken. Tell her you will eat only beef steaks. That will already make her feel better. Next, tell yer that you will agree to cook just the very outside of the steak on very low heat so that it is lightly browned, all the bacteria is supposed to be on the outside anyways, right mom? If you get thick steaks, you're getting like 97% raw. That will give you the vast majority of all the benefits you can get from the diet anyways.
The fact that you're getting raw animal products - even if you have the occasional spaghetti - is HUGE. The main benefits of this diet (IMO) are derived from the removal of cooked fats, addition of live enzymes, and addition of raw fat/protein. Carbs can be cooked or not, just don't overdo it.
Also I might ask her:
- Have you ever eaten cookie dough? --well that has raw eggs in it
- Have you ever eaten sushi? --people get served sushi all the time. You wouldn't mind if I was eating raw fish
- What about raw oysters?
- What about over easy eggs?
And last but not least, I know how difficult it can be to have an actual, calm conversation with a stubborn/ignorant person (even more so with Mom). But if you lose your cool you won't get far... be warned, she knows your buttons may (will) try to push em - why mom's are like that I don't know. Just do your best to keep things calm and rational, even if she's not, and try to strike a deal.
haha, maybe spend a few days in preparation, talking more extreme than she's used to. Talk about eating egg shells, raw liver/organs, high meat, zero carb (sorry zc'ers), etc. Give it a rest for a few days, and then go back and ASK her if yall can talk about a compromise. She'll be so worried about you eating spoiled meat, that when you finally agree to just eat barely browned steaks, she'll prob be all sorts of gratefull that you're not talking crazy anymore.
Good luck. Keep us posted.
thanks a lot. I will give that a go.