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« on: November 11, 2014, 05:48:53 am »
GS, you are probably looking for answers from males, but allow me to share my observations as a woman in Alberta:
"Real women" from a man's point of view is a woman with a BMI around 20 or less who has long hair and is feminine. For some guy the woman also should be under 25. So basically a slim woman with good hair, under 25 has her pick of men (at the bar, at work, guys she meets while doing errands). If she has perky breasts she is even better off. She loses a lot points for being a drug addict. This type of woman is not the norm out here. Most women are not that slim, or feminine (don't like to wear dresses, big feet, can't wear dainty shoes ect.)
Most of these most favorable women are in a relationship, having sex with only one male at a time.
Some of these women have boyfriends, but cheat on them. These women will be very careful about who they have sex with because men will always brag about having had sex with them and they do not want a bad reputation.
Some of these women are single, and will limit the amount of men the have sex with so that they do not get a bad reputation.
The remaining "real women" who have sex with a lot of men without much consideration, are likely labelled as "sluts" and lose their title of "real woman" anyway. But apparently these women are not sharing themselves around enough.
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There are many single women who have qualities that would cause men to look elsewhere:
-overweight. (This is a big one out here. A slim body is more rare than a pretty face, and drillbits (bad face, good body) often do way better than they should)
-short, ugly hair.
-smell bad.
-health problems: diabetes, hysterectomy,
-old
Many of these women would be willing to put out, but aren't willing to make the effort to attract a man. Probably low energy and low self esteem. They are also generally wanting someone more attractive than is readily available to them.
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These qualities will make men less attractive to women:
Bad Appearance: Bald, short, fat, big moles on the face. Obvious health problems. Obvious deformities.
Poor Hygiene: Stinks, no cologne, looks greasy, has unkempt facial hair.
Ignorance: Is blatantly sexist or racist. Loud, obnoxious, embarrassing to be around. Makes gross jokes. Sounds like an idiot.
No Income: Some girls don't care if he is otherwise attractive.
Incompetent: Someone who is bad at their job, doesn't know how to fix cars or do anything for that matter.
If a man has many of these qualities, he will not be able to find a "real woman". Strippers will shudder when he sits in the front row. Escorts may not even open the door for him when they look through the peep hole. He will have to pay for sex (probably he will pay more than an attractive guy, and get a lesser service), settle for a very unattractive woman or target a vulnerable woman (ie someone poor, stupid, drug addict). These types of men will definitely buy wives from overseas, or go do sex tourism. Albertan women would rather never get laid again than have sex with these guys.
I have no idea what percentage of Albertan men fall into this "extremely unattractive" category. Maybe 5%? Alberta has a lot of very attractive men.
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In summary,
Very attractive males and females have little problem getting laid. These people only have issues if they are working too much to meet anyone, or are too shy to ask, or some other logistical problem.
Average men and women can get laid, but sometimes their standards are too high, and they don't have the confidence to "put themselves out there"
Unattractive women usually give up. Unattractive men pay, or go overseas.
There are some men who inexplicably do sex tourism or by wives, despite being attractive enough to attract a variety of Albertan females. It makes me think they are seeking a more traditional woman to fill the role of a wife and mother.
For the most part though, men who seek sex outside Canada are men that I would not ever contemplate having sex with.
Besides, I find it somewhat unpatriotic to do so.