Can you list other worthwhile health forums?

[RawZi]

    I don't agree that a man is "getting it somewhere else".  Ok, maybe he "getting it" through porn or who knows what, but not necessarily physically participating in sex acts with other mates, depends on the man and situation.  Sex is healthy for both parties or should be.  I can fast from sex.  Good sex adds to good health though, woman or man. 

[goodsamaritan]

I can fast from sex.

Healthy men cannot fast from sex.

www.gnolls.org

gnolls.org is good! Thanks.

[RawZi]

Healthy men cannot fast from sex.

gnolls.org is good! Thanks.

    Nice website.  Thank you.

    That wouldn't be fair.  A man has sex every day with his wife.  Then he suddenly leaves for a business trip.  She suffers without and he finds someone in the city he stays in for the trip?  I can't believe men and women are so different in their needs.  What are women healthier and stronger so they don't need sex and men weak and sickly so they need sex for their health?  Are men spoiled so the have to get so nervous they get an aneurism if they don't get sex all the time? I'm thinking it's probably usually cultural.  I think women tend to be trained to be patient number one, and will be called negative names if they have more sex, while men are congratulated.

[miles]

No, a man has to ejaculate like a woman has to let the blood out when she has a period.

For a man to fast from ejaculation is like when you're bursting for a pee at the cinema watching a good film.

In nature if a woman has sex she is pregnant for 9months, so she has to choose the man well. That's why their sexual urges are different to a man's.

Some women get more sexual urges when they get older(around 40), but this is because they are moving away from their sexual peak, becoming less like women and more like men. They are also less likely to get pregnant.

[goodsamaritan]

    That wouldn't be fair.  A man has sex every day with his wife.  Then he suddenly leaves for a business trip.  She suffers without and he finds someone in the city he stays in for the trip?  I can't believe men and women are so different in their needs.  What are women healthier and stronger so they don't need sex and men weak and sickly so they need sex for their health?  Are men spoiled so the have to get so nervous they get an aneurism if they don't get sex all the time? I'm thinking it's probably usually cultural.  I think women tend to be trained to be patient number one, and will be called negative names if they have more sex, while men are congratulated.

Life is not "fair"... men and women ARE different.
And that is the reality of things.
Monogamy is a WIFE's fantasy.
The reality is a monogamous HEALTHY man has chicks and prostitutes and mistresses and keeps it a secret so WIFE can keep her FANTASY.

(mistresses, prostitutes and "girlfriends" don't suffer from this FANTASY)

Muslims and Mormons know better.  They don't need mistresses, girlfriends, and prostitutes in their setup.

Tiger Woods, there you go, a normal healthy man trapped in the monogamy FANTASY.

My grandma was the #2 wife / mistress. Her sexual secret?  She never said NO.  Every time my grandpa tapped her, she was always GAME.

My customer is 70+ years old and he tells his wife he needs to get it off once a week.  If he can't get it off with her, he just needs to blow it elsewhere.  His wife is 70+ years old and they still have sex.  Geriatric sex is real.

[TylerDurden]

The notion that women favour monogamy is nonsense. If you look at the statistics, you will find a common figure of c.30 percent of people having a different father from the one they thought. Simply put, women do go after the alpha male because he is seen as the stronger man re breeding-stock/DNA, but they know damn well that that type of man is completely unreliable as a protector, so they would rather have an affair with the alpha male, get pregnant from him, and then select a more submissive beta-male  for an "official" relationship who will more reliably look after her and her children financially.

Given such paternity fraud, any father would be a fool not to get an unofficial paternity test.

[RawZi]

Geriatric sex is real.

    I know, and that's why I wish women felt more free.  I know geriatric couples, and when the man is not able to perform and doesn't want sex anymore and wants the woman to satisfy herself elsewhere or not, I wish more women felt free to do so; because sometimes these women would want sex, especially if they haven't had all their female organs removed.  Even then of course the man might want it and can't perform and the geriatric woman finds his awkward attempts annoying.  I like the idea of monogamy, but think poliamory or polyandry may work in some culture? I heard it worked well with some native americans.

women do go after the alpha male because he is seen as the stronger man re breeding-stock/DNA, but they know damn well that that type of man is completely unreliable as a protector, so they would rather have an affair with the alpha male, get pregnant from him, and then select a more submissive beta-male  for an "official" relationship who will more reliably look after her

    Yes, I know women in the US who do that, sometimes with terrible lack of anything resembling much ethics (don't care if it hurts the natural father so much). 

PS Then again, nevermind, one particular couple I'm thinking of the natural father was a good provider/protector, she didn't like that he wasn't submissive "enough" toward her ... plus she planned it all along way in advance.