I see no real easy way out of the Charity trap other than being able to play the system for what you can get out of it
I disagree.....but before I go on, I need to make clear that I am not personally attacking you - I am addressing multiple posters who see "gaming the system" as a functional alternative. That said....
First, no one said getting out of any trap is easy, so "easy" isn't a prerequisite to escaping the trap.
Second, I see no shame in doing what needs to be done to take care of your family. But conversely, I see no pride in taking regular hand-outs from Big Brother.
Third, government is incredibly inefficient. Your productivity is taxed (income tax), and that is given to various departments. The foodstamp office soaks up 90 cents on every dollar in administrative costs. Only 10 cents actually goes to families in the form of financial assistance.
If those figures belonged to a private charity (
United Way, Salvation Army, Red Cross, Good Will, YMCA, American Cancer Society, etc), there would be public outrage, boycotts would ensue, top dogs would be fired.
Fourth, achieving excellence in what we do & caring for our families (a goal of all men), cannot be done to its fullest extent while we allow an external force to rob us....or worse, willingly participate in the system. It has been said several times that gaming the system is right & that there is no incentive to work harder to make more because losing hand-outs (& possibly falling into a higher tax bracket) just evens things out. "Why bother to work harder for the same thing?"
I disagree with this assumption. There is more to the pay-off than the dollar figure at the end of the day. Keep things as they are, and they'll likely be there tomorrow, next week, next year, 5 years hence....it never changes.
Drop the hand-outs (even at a loss) and you stand on your feet with pride stemming from the knowledge that you have provided for your family and that you are on your way UP. Nothing will stay the same, and you owe nothing to anybody.
My personal take - I don't believe in federal level governmental assistance of any kind. Not to the rich, not to the poor.