The back of my hands started getting really badly dry lately and I have stopped using soap on my hands at all whatsoever, even after the toilet. I haven't gotten sick from eating anything directly after the bathroom, and if I'm at home I don't even wash with water.. however, I do use a large amount of toilet paper to prevent anything from getting on my hands, plus most of the time the toilet paper comes up clean anyways. And after re-reading this thread and reading about the way soap can off-balance hormones, I don't think I ever want to use regular soap again.
When I do wash my hands, which is usually only at work, but very often at work, I just take my time washing my hands with water for a long time until my hands feel clean, and then also scrub them with paper towels afterwards, and they always feel clean. I also only shower once a week now, sometimes twice, but more often only once a week.. which is the only time I ever use soap, though I only wash my hair with it, and I only use the sandlewood bar soap that I got from whole foods. the ingredients for it are:
Saponified palm oil, water, fragrance, natural mineral pigments, butyrospermum parkii [shea butter], olea eurpaea [olive] fruit oil.
and that's it. I haven't been able to find any soap with any less amount of chemicals or ingredients in it, though I haven't checked every single soap out there, but I'll check other soaps when this one runs out. I also don't use tooth paste and will avoid using deodorant when I can, although when showering once a week only sometimes I have to, but I use some organic aluminum free stuff, and half the time I forget to use it anyways. I've never had anyone complain to me about smell, but then I also don't stand too close/near to other people very often either. My hair still does get very oily, but at work I am required to wear a hat so no one really sees it. My lips have also been dry lately so I bought some organic lip balm, ingredients being:
Organic safflower seed oil, organic beeswax, organic vanilla oil, organic lemon balm, organic comfrey, organic calendula mixed tocopherols, organic licorice root, organic lemon oil.
other than that, I avoid all chemicals like the plague, and I refuse to touch any of the sanitizers at my work. I don't eat high meat though, so I don't have to worry about getting that smell off..