Thank you for your replies!
Thoth
I'm not a fan of doctors either and would only chose them to help me when I feel guidance is truly needed. I say guidance bc I will choose myself what to do and what not to do and not just blindly listen. I make the rules
I had a birth plan ready, and was trying to make sure doctors do it my way. But the emergency changed it all, sadly.
My nutrition was the worst while pregnant. Due to a lack of money we mostly ate what my in laws provided, take out.
joe
That is very interesting about the flow. It makes sense. My nerves were damaged and I had numbness (still have a very minor numb feeling).
I agree many people are just not in tune with their bodies (or their instincts).
Dorothy
It doesn't mean that you can't compensate, work it through - it just takes so much energy. It's appalling to me how standard c-sections are now whether needed or not. C-sections are less risky in terms of lawsuits so have become the norm. Yours sounded like it was essential though - so you can be glad you were able to have one.
It was, but it could have been prevented, had the doctors listened to me regarding my due date. When I got pregnant, I was using the NFP method. I knew when I ovulated and conceived and had calculated a much earlier due date. I went to see an OB a bit later in my pregnancy and they were unsure about how many weeks gestation I was judging by the US alone, but in the end my DD was two weeks off. So after my C-Section, doctors were pretty much like "ooopss! This placenta is pretty damn old..." My son had signs of a post term baby too.
I would have preferred an earlier induction over a C-Section. Although I prefer all natural birth of course.
It would be interesting to have someone skilled in acupressure/acupuncture evaluate that meridian for you to see it's affects and/or someone that can see the chakras take a look at you.
I will look into that! I just hope I will find something covered by my insurance. My insurance does cover a lot of alternative medicine, so its worth checking with them.
jessica
We were planning to keep him attached quite some time, but with the emergency c-section they cut the cord right away to then proceed to check him. I feel bad about it but there was no way around it since they also wanted to make sure he is okay after his heartbeat dropped so much.
RawZi
My outer scar is not too bad, but hypotrophic. I seemto have a tendency for raised scars with bigger cuts. Luckily I did not have an infection.
Most of my pain comes from underneath the scar.
And also, what may be TMI...I have vaginal pains, like closer to the cervix. Worst during intercourse. They have very slowly bettered, but I have ups and downs.
My OB thinks its due to breastfeeding, but it does not match the description, and why would it get better every month since giving birth? She also stated it will get worse the longer I breastfeed...which does not make sense at all...how would that even work in nature...<_<