Normalized Sex Drive on instincto?

[goodsamaritan]

It comes spontaneously when our sexual drive is normalized, coupled to love, freed from the obsession and compulsion due to wheat and other Neolithic or modern cooked food.    

What is your personal experience, personal observation / opinion on normalized sex drive on instincto / raw paleo?

For yourself, at what age were you, how long it takes to normalize, for other people and other ages?

[Iguana]

I was 41 and it was immediate. The few others we talked a bit about that had roughly the same experience. This is one of the striking results of instinctive nutrition, along with the fact that we never get any infection, from the first day on!

Since I was 12, I had always been in a kind of sexual obsession : generally, I could not fall asleep without having first a genital activity. It was somewhat annoying and when it happened to me the first time I was totally ignorant about it, so it was a severe trauma which made me feel guilty and very shy, especially front of the girls I found the most attractive! What a mess…

My parents never explained me anything about sexuality, but subsequently offered me instead a book titled “Everything a young man should know” (lol   ), and that’s how I learned about it. I felt a bit better to learn that I was probably somewhat normal… Nevertheless, I kept a slight feeling that something was odd with such a compulsive sex drive. 

So, when I started to eat 100% raw instincto way, I was agreeably surprised and relieved that this kind of obsessive behavior was suddenly and unexpectedly over. It is not at all that our potency is gone: on the contrary it remains very much the same or even stronger, but it become totally submissive, available or dormant at will. Want to sleep? Sleep. Feel in love ? Love. Love is the master. 

Seems that in normal, totally natural conditions, there is no genital relations without love. Rape, pornography and prostitution would then be the result of the abnormal sexual excitation caused by Neolithic and modern foods.
 
That’s a tremendously significant result with enormous consequences. If it’s true (and it really seems it is), all the civilizations, their philosophies, religions, laws and social order were thus constructed on an abnormal human behavior which was mistakenly taken for normal! Consequently, all the social sciences and social rules should be revised.

In the light of this, we can better understand how and why cooking food and the Neolithic revolution were some of  the worst disasters ever happened on Earth, why everything has gone wrong with the human behavior. 

[goodsamaritan]

Thanks for sharing.

One hypothesis i learned from barefoot herbalistmh was that as the food became worse and people's lives are judged shorter by the body, those bodies try to mature faster and try to reproduce earlier.

Unfortunately in the 21st century of reproductive health / contraception / abortion / aids lies and childlessness screws things up worse for people.

I hypothesize that the combination above makes people want to have even more frantic random sex and frequent sex with different partners required as far as survival reproduction is concerned because the chances of reproducing are very much very low in 21st century absurdity of modern sexuality.

Keep adding to this thread please.  My oldest son is 11 now and he and the other kids will need real sex education.  Not the global government crap they push.

[Iguana]

One hypothesis i learned from barefoot herbalistmh was that as the food became worse and people's lives are judged shorter by the body, those bodies try to mature faster and try to reproduce earlier.

Yes, that's a general trend in nature which may also have an influence, I think.

But sexual, physical, relations have another purpose than reproduction as well. Sexuality in humans, bonobos and it seems dolphins (at least) is permanent unlike in most other animals which have a period of rut and no sex drive in-between. For example, pregnant women still have a sexual drive, even under instincto nutrition, so it must have a useful function. This cannot be pleasure only as the sexologists pretend, because an animal wasting its energy for pleasure only has less chances of survival and thus such a species would have been eliminated by natural selection.

GCB has some evidence about what this function is. He explains it in his “metasexuality” theory, which a few experts such as professionals psychoanalysts or a very knowledgeable professor of philosophy have recognized in private (to him, and to me also) that it’s a new fundamental finding fitting extremely well within our current knowledge while fillings the gaps and suppressing the incoherencies.   

[cherimoya_kid]

For example, pregnant women still have a sexual drive, even under instincto nutrition, so it must have a useful function. This cannot be pleasure only as the sexologists pretend, because an animal wasting its energy for pleasure only has less chances of survival and thus such a species would have been eliminated by natural selection.

Do you think maybe that the sexuality of pregnant women might be related to bonding, like sex is among the bonobos?

Come on, do a little research on the subject.

[goodsamaritan]

My wife is totally zero sexual when pregnant.

[Iguana]

There are exceptions, of course. I must depend on the kind of relationship too.

Do you think maybe that the sexuality of pregnant women might be related to bonding, like sex is among the bonobos?

Probably. Bonobos are our close relatives. How and why do you think sexuality is related to bonding? Why a male would be attracted by an already pregnant female if sexuality only useful function is reproduction? There must be some kind of bonding agent, don't you think? 

Come on, do a little research on the subject.

Thanks for the kind advice!