Eve - I hope to get to where you are, but that is in my future. For now I weigh and measure and it is not instinctive at all. I add herbs and seasoning to feel more satisfied, I grind and warm food for ease and pleasure. I'm struggling to be free of carb cravings and over eating. That is my prime motive at this time. I am crazed/dysfunctional/broken/addicted - whatever so, right now I'm just hoping that if I eat nutritionally dense, small meals, without carbs in time I will heal.
Joy - I felt/feel connected to myself with instinctive eating, but it was too much for me. Maybe if I had a class or a coach I could have persevered. It brought to my attention more than I could handle under the stress that I don't know how to eliminate in my life presently. I had to focus in a particular way to eat according to instinctive principles and when the time is right for me I will return to it, but without carbs.
On the other hand, with my full connection in an actual meditative state, I was able to eat exactly the right amt of food including honey and sweet fruits, for my growth as a whole person (physically/ mentally/emotionally healing). I was able and it was clear, but it required honesty and focus, that meant that I couldn't be on the phone or with others, watching TV, at work, or any distraction. I think for some this is easier due to less outside distractions, and less internal noise of addiction. It was getting easier, and I think eventually it would become really instinctive to be instinctive. I believe anybody could do it and it is a powerful tool for whole self healing.
zc is more doable for me. This has been a problem all of my life, EVERYTHING pivots around carbs and overeating, I want to deal with stuff, but it is to be overwhelmed. ZC especially with measuring, will hopefully help my BG to stabilize and ease things up a bit. I also want to return to my light weight, agile form. Success in that department is motivating, and disappointment is deeply frustrating.
Max - I'm having a really tough time right now. I want to get through it and I'm hoping that if I switch things up and stay focused on success I'll out last the cravings. It worked when I was addicted to cigarettes. Sometimes, I thought the cravings would never pass. I had them for 5 years, they passed totally after about 10. I'm at least as hooked on overeating and carbs as I was on cigarettes.
I'm pretty sure I substituted eating for some of the addictive smoking behavior. So, maybe now I'll reach the core of the addiction. I avoided cigarettes and I healed that part. Avoiding the triggers it is a little easier than moderating my intake. The insidious voice of addiction has more fuel whenI moderate than when I exclude. Meat/fish/fat/ seaweed/herbs/salt aren't triggering me. I really enjoy dairy. I have no desire to stop drinking cream when my belly is full. Instead I think about adding honey and whipping them up then I think of the berries, and before I know it I'm sucking down snicker bars on the couch and can't get up because I'm so stuffed. Maybe it's because it raises my BG into the 200's immediately because injected subcutaneous insulin is much slower than gut carb absorption, IDK. Not pretty! it's the same story for cream/cheese/butter isn't as immediate but, it still sings its bitter sweet song of addiction.