As far as carbs go, PaleoPhil says that fermented raw honey (from the Really Raw Honey company) has really helped him get rid of his carb sensitivity.
It does seem to have reduced my carb sensitivity, but not gotten rid of it. Others have reported benefits from it at the Really Raw website, and the WAPF claims that fermented honey is a "better aid to digestion" than unfermented (
http://www.westonaprice.org/food-features/fermented-honey), though not many people have tried it and reported results. It is relatively expensive, but then I try not to eat more than 2 tbsps at a time anyway, as going above that still tends to spike my BG. Early on I did find myself eating large amounts of honey at times, but I've gotten better control of that. One trick I use is to keep most of the honey in a closet out of sight and only take it out one jar at a time (I buy it by the case to get a bit of a price discount, as honey doesn't spoil), and also to keep the 1-2 TBSP limit in mind when eating it. I also don't eat it every day and if I find myself eating too much or too regularly, I put the open jar in a cupboard, out of sight.
Problem is, what do I swap them for to get my carb fix. I can't eat fruit in any decent amounts as it also gives me anxiety and I just crave it too much!!! Any thoughts?
What I did is try various carby foods one at a time to see which I tolerated best.
Has anyone ever eaten sweet potato raw? Does it have the same anti nutrients that potatoes have?
Yes, I've tried it. It was OK, not great. It does contain antinutrients, as do all plant foods, but they are likely somewhat different, though similar, to those in potatoes. I haven't analyzed it in detail and I haven't bothered much with it since testing it both raw and boiled. I don't currently seem to fare great on sweet potatoes or white potatoes, though I'll occasionally have them when eating at other peoples' homes our at restaurants. These are the current foods that contain significant carbs that I seem to tolerate well, though many other people report very different foods, so it's best if you test various foods yourself--
Roughly from best tolerated at top, to least tolerated
eggs, liver, shellfish (animal starch)
carrots, radishes, horseradish, raw fermented sauerkraut, greens, celery, garlic
wild Maine blueberries, raw fermented honey (1-2 TBSP)
coconut (though too much can give me nausea, likely from overload of MC triglycerides), blackberries
other blueberries, raspberries
fresh figs
super-ripe bananas
raw sheep cheese (expensive)
occasionally when eating away from home: cooked tubers or small amounts of steamed/boiled white rice
FWIW, your experience with suet is quite different than mine. I have found suet to be one of my most hydrating foods. That plus fermented honey and topical cocoa butter have been my most effective tools against dry skin. I sometimes use suet topically as well. It's amazing how different peoples' experiences can be, which once again goes to show how important personal experimentation is.