If she or he is having sex with multiple partners, without the exchange of love, and that sounds like what we're talking about here, there's a disconnect of heart or true self, and a strengthening of the mind or desires which in effect can take one out of the present moment in relation to one's real being,, love. So instead of filling one's self with love, we get caught in the never ending search outside of ourselves for something that can never really satisfy. But when SEX and Love come together, that, in my opinion, is a great healer.